Building Confidence After Betrayal/ Betrayal, Healing, Forgiveness, Guilt, Shame

Are you tired of being on a roller coaster of emotions after finding out about your spouse's infidelity? Wish you could stop the constant replay of the worst day in your marriage? Do you feel like you will never heal from the broken trust and betrayal that you experienced?

 I am so blessed to have you here with me!  This podcast will help you find lasting inner peace, deepen your relationship with God, restore stability in your life and relationships, and rebuild your confidence in who He created you to be. 

 You will discover how to trust yourself and others again, experience forgiveness, and set healthy boundaries. 

Hey,  I’m Lorraine. A mom, nana to four grandbabies,  and a born-again believer!

 I spent 36 years in a marriage filled with verbal, emotional, and mental abuse. Then, in our 34th year, I discovered my husband had been cheating on me the entire time. 

The betrayal left me drowning in shame, guilt and anger, not just toward him, but toward myself. Honestly, all I wanted to do was bury my head in the sand.

One day, I decided I was tired of hiding myself. I knew it was time to deal with what happened, so I sought our Christian counselling. While that helped, I also set out to discover how to create real change in my life and to finally find the deep healing I so desperately needed. I finally discovered how to be strong in mind, body, and soul, and I want to share it with you!

 If you're ready for deep inner healing and lasting spiritual assurance after infidelity, broken trust and betrayal, you are warmly invited into a faith-filled journey where Christ is at the centre, guiding you towards spiritual assurance and inner peace.

So grab a cup of Tea or coffee, and let's sit down and see where the Lord is going to take us!

Episodes

5 days ago

8 min

Have you ever wondered if God's still speaking. epeceally when life feels heavy? In this episode of Coffee Time with Lorraine, I,m just sharingpart of my story, how God led me through a season I didn't understand. I just want you toknow, this isn't the end of your story. God is faithful, He's working and He can lead you forward!
I pray this blesses you.

Aug 4, 2026

23 min

Are you holding on to unforgiveness because you're afraid forgiving your spouse means saying what they did was okay?
What would change if you chose to forgive today, even if your feelings haven't caught up with your decision?
Are you ready to release your spouse into God's hands and allow Jesus to begin healing the wounds betrayal has left behind?
Forgiveness is one of the hardest commands God give us, especially after betrayal. In this episode, Lorraine shares how God transformed her understanding of forgiveness and why forgiveness is a decision, not a feeling.  You'll discover the difference between forgiveness and healing, learn why holding on to unforgiveness keeps us spiritually and emotionally bound.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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Jul 28, 2026

7 min

Have you ever found yourself questioning your own memory because someone kept telling you that what you experienced never happened?
Are you constantly walking on eggshells, apologizing just to keep the peace, and wondering if you're the problem? 
What if God wants to replace the confusion and lies you've believed with His truth, healing, and peace? 
In this deeply personal episode of Building Confidence After Betrayal ,I  share my journey of living with someone who displayed narcissistic behaviours and how years of manipulation left me questioning my own reality. I open up about the emotional confusion, constant self-doubt, and the freedom that began when God revealed the truth and led me toward healing. Through powerful Scriptures and practical encouragement, you'll discover that God sees your pain, understands your struggle, and wants to restore your identity, confidence, and hope. If you've ever felt unseen, unheard, or like you're losing yourself, this episode will remind you that healing begins with God's truth. 
"This is my personal story and experience. I Am Not a Licensed Therapist or Practitioner Specializing in Narcissistic Abuse"
 

Jul 21, 2026

11 min

Have you ever wondered why, even when the situation is over, your mind still feels like it’s trying to protect you?                           Why can certain words, situations, or memories bring back fear, anxiety, or feelings of insecurity?                                                      Are the thoughts you’re carrying from your pain keeping you trapped, or are they bringing you closer to God? 
In today's episode, we are going to untangle these three pieces because they’re often connected, yet They’re not the same. Understanding the difference can bring clarity, remove shame, and help you recognize what kind of healing God may be inviting you into. My prayer is that by the end of this episode, you’ll have a better understanding of what you’ve been experiencing and, more importantly, hope that healing is possible with our Heavenly Father. 
I want to be clear that I’m not a mental health professional, and I’m not here to diagnose anyone. I’m simply sharing my own journey of healing and what I’ve learned through scripture, prayer, and my personal experience. If you’ve experienced trauma or think you may have PTSD, I strongly encourage you to seek qualified professional healthcare. My hope is simply to point you toward the healing and hope I’ve found in Christ Jesus.”

Jul 21, 2026

8 min

When you look in the mirror, do you see yourself the way God sees you?                               
What lies have you believed about yourself because of rejection, betrayal, or abandonment?                                                                    If you were sitting across from God today, what do you think He would say about who you are? 
For years, I believed the lies that betrayal and shame told me about who I was. Everything changed when I discovered what God says about my identity and began replacing those lies with his truth. In this episode, I’ll share the Scriptures and simple practices that helped me find freedom, confidence, and peace--and how they can help you do the same. 

Jul 21, 2026

10 min

Have you been carrying a label someone else’s betrayal put on you? 
What if the shame you’ve been living with was never yours to carry? 
If you really believe God’s promises about your identity, how would that change how you see yourself today? 
 
In this episode, I open my heart and share part of my own journey through betrayal and healing. I’ll also share two simple things you can do today to experience God's love. Grow closer to him and take your next step toward healing and confidence! 

Jun 8, 2026

3 min

A short synopsis about what will be talked about in this podcast. About betrayal, shame, hurt and anger!

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